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Eat, Pray, Love: part of a movement in the making?

June 1st, 2010 · 8 Comments

“To be in India is to experience India. It’s not that you have to go find it. It’s all right there,” she says.

Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love, and Julia Roberts were on the Oprah show to promote the upcoming movie. Do you agree with the director, Ryan?

“I think it’s more than a book. I think it’s a movement, and I think it’s so personal to so many people,” he says. “It was to me. I was a fan, like Julia was, before it came into our lives.”

Liz also shares, “One of the great teachings that I learned in India is that silence is the only true religion.” So what about all the noise from the “EPL marketing machine” as Yoga Dork calls it?

In “Are you experienced?”, Sirensongs quips that the book will release a torrent of tourists unprepared for the experience.

With the release of the Eat Pray Love (or is it Eat Love Pray?) major motion picture (“The amazing adventure of a middle-class white woman who talked her publisher into bankrolling a scripted adventure”), India-tripping is set to become a middle-class fad for the first time since the days of the 70s Overland Chapatti Express. Except this time, instead of tie-dyed trippies, it will be mani-pedi suburban women seeking “adventure.”

She compiles a humorous list of ignorant questions that first-time travellers pose. Yet while her tone seems derogatory towards the potential newcomers, I would prefer to see it as an opportunity for many different kinds of women to be exposed to  India where they might never have even thought about it before.

I followed some of the conversations on the EPL Facebook page, and of course there were plenty of disagreements between the conservative Christians and others. And plenty of misinterpretations about yoga, Buddhism, meditation.

Nonetheless, if the book opens some women up to India,  so much the better. It would take courage for anyone to come and visit, with or without mani-pedi.

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  • http://www.sirensongs.blogspot.com sirensongs

    A “Quip,” by definition, is a short sentence. You quoted a paragraph. Thanks for the link.

  • http://www.sirensongs.blogspot.com sirensongs

    Hi Becky: Did anyone ever say it *wasn't* good? This writing is *satirical.*

    The idea that new visitors to India are not “good” is your own interjection, entirely. While it's great that the newcomers even took trouble to go online w their questions – many would not – the questions themselves show a level of cluelessness that is humourous even to those who haven't been to India. Again, this is for readers sophisticated enough to appreciate satire.

  • beckyblab

    According to Merriam Webster<http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/quip>,
    a quip can also be “**a clever usually taunting remark.” So you can take it
    as a compliment :)

    It was a really thought-provoking post. I liked this phrase “inconvenient
    realities,” because it struck me that life is often like that, not just in
    India. It does not always proceed according to our wishes or logic.

    I also admit that I was very clueless when I first came to India, and still
    am. I have no idea why things happen the way they do here. (Or anywhere, for
    that matter!)

  • http://littlepractices.wordpress.com Kelly

    Hi, Becky,

    I just read sirensongs post and I didn't sense the derogatory tone or any implication that one must be “properly prepared” to travel to India.

    In response to that idea that one must be “prepared”: It seems to me that no matter who we are, what we know, or how *prepared* we might be, when we travel outside our comfort zone or our home environment funny, ridiculous, and foolish exchanges are bound to take place. My father-in-law told me about a Polish immigrant he met in the US who was working as a janitor in a store. He pushed his broom through the store saying, “Tuesday, Tuesday, Tuesday” and could NOT understand why people wouldn't get out of his way when he was so politely excusing himself. Okay, bad example and one that is purely based on language but it's such a funny story, I felt compelled to share it.

    The thing is this: If each of us wait until we are perfected (rather wait until we perceive ourselves as perfected) to explore new places, new ideas, and so on then most of us indeed will remain self-centered, self-obsessed, and provincial. Too, who is it that is ENTITLED to determine whether another is *prepared* or not? I'm reminded of Sri Ramakrishna's teaching that the teaching is always the same, what's different is the capacity of the student. And so, should those with a “lesser” or different capacity be prevented or discouraged from exploring, learning, or bumbling around? I think there's a strong dose of arrogance in that suggestion.

    –Kelly

  • beckyblab

    Hi Kelly,

    Maybe I didn't phrase it correctly by saying “tourists unprepared for the
    experience”. I suppose what I sensed was a mockery of readers of EPL, the
    stereotypical suburban white women… Yes, it was funny, but is it at
    someone's expense? I agree with you that we can never be fully prepared, and
    that we will inevitably make mistakes (and hopefully learn from them!).

    The concluding point you made is what I was getting at–by mocking, or
    satirizing, potential visitors, it could be interpreted that they're not
    quite up to par by some standards.

    Thanks for your valuable feedback! :)

  • Kelly

    Here's to adventures for all ;-) .

  • Sirensongs

    “what I sensed was a mockery of readers of EPL, the stereotypical suburban white women… Yes, it was funny, but is it at someone's expense? “

    If someone can't take a joke from a foreigner, they will *never* be able to withstand India. “At someone's expense,” are you kidding? In India the joke is 24 hours and it's always at your or someone else's expense! “The Lands of Charm and Cruelty.”

    The fantasies of people from “developing” countries who dream of going Westward are fairly well known. I would love to write something about the fantasies of Americans going East. Even those who feel they are well-prepared insist on maintaining the delusions they came with (“India is a mystical, spiritual place”, “everyone here really means well” etc.). Such notions should be burst tout de suite and by doing so, one is providing a service, not being cruel.