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A rich life

July 26th, 2010 · 9 Comments

“How deeply you touch another life is how rich your life is.”–Sadhguru

I like this quote because it redefines wealth, which seems to be a primary concern of many. When I was growing up, I was spoiled by having the things I wanted, and I took them for granted. Yet, I also slowly realized that what I really wanted couldn’t be bought. I wanted to be happy. I didn’t want to do anything just for money; I wanted fulfillment. Money wasn’t a driving force in my life.

Is money the key to happiness?

As a full-time volunteer, maybe I’m not earning financially, but the value I get from being with others, offering myself to help them, is far more precious. Sometimes I struggle with the idea of not making money, since I have always grown up believing I would have a career. But I am creating possibilities for myself which are beyond monetary reward, which I myself find truly worthwhile.

My grandfather can’t understand how I could have come here to help him, and would rather that I earn something and leave him alone. It’s no surprise that he didn’t have great relationships with relatives, since he apparently does not appreciate being with family.

The other day I shucked fresh Jersey corn with my nephew, & I feel this trip is the same: day by day, peeling back more and more layers, down to my core. Spending time with loved ones doesn’t cost money, it costs love–and that is invaluable.

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  • Yogasavy

    The quote is beautiful and so true. I wish you many such positive experiences on your journey.

  • beckyblab

    Thanks. Hope all goes well with your move!

  • Katherine Jenkins

    Becky, hope you are enjoying time with your grandfather. Are you still in the States?

  • Pooja

    this sounds like me…..my hubby is so much into money and appraently that is the reason of his worry and stress.. he cannot look beyond it..i do not knpw how to make him realise the full potential of life and that money is just a means to support basics and if utilised efficiently,it canlead to a joyous life…

  • beckyblab

    Thanks Katherine. I'm still here in NYC! Enjoying it a lot :)

  • beckyblab

    Hi Pooja, I'm not sure you can make anyone realize this kind of thing,
    because it's so deeply ingrained. I suppose the best you can do is be an
    example & be supportive!

  • Ubiquitous

    love it! :) peace and happiness be with you!

    http://sobriquetforme.blogspot.com/

  • Hsiang

    True measure of wealth comes from one's ability to give, if you don't contribute to others then you're poor regardless of how much you own.

  • beckyblab

    Hi Hsiang, thanks for your beautiful comment! How true…